Pastoral Leadership Challenges

Pastoral Leadership Challenges

Dr. Hugh Ballou has done some great work in his transformational leadership seminars. Last year Dr. Ballou interviewed me on church leadership issues. Here is a part of that interview:

Ballou: As you work with the churches in your conference what perspective can you give our readers leading in many types of churches about this area of foundations?

Willimon: An important foundation for a leader in the church is a sense of being called to do it. We pastors must be convinced that God really wants us to do what we do. In a broad sense we feel that we are here because I have been sent here. Methodists practice what we call a “sent ministry,” that is that you can’t be hired to do it you have to be sent to do ministry. This is a core United Methodist belief. At key moments that becomes very important to a pastoral leader to believe that God is in this and that I am here because God means for it to be this way.

Ballou: I work also with leadership in the business work that have their own idea of how it should be. In the context of church leadership, we are implementing God’s vision with a sense of calling. It this your sense?

Willimon: Yes, that’s a good statement, just what I’d expect of a Presbyterian! Whatever work a Christian does is supposed to be vocational. I think we are talking of a kind of transcendent sense of why we’re here. I’m not here simply managing the moment, but I’m here from some larger panorama that is being worked out through my little faithfulness right here.

Ballou: As you know I served the church for over 40 years. You knew me when I served a church in North Alabama. One of the things I have observed is that on a Myers-Briggs scale, both pastors and musicians have a dominant profile of introvert. How does this effect leadership?

Willimon: I remember reading where one observes that tendency toward introversion among clergy. The first thing is – acknowledge it and also acknowledge it as a real challenge. I remember reading that actors tend to be introverts. Which is counter intuitive – people on stage projecting, playing a role, communicating, which says to me that this is one thing that attracted them to the role of acting. They like cultivating and developing a kind of “unnatural” aspect of their personalities. I would say, it’s hard for me, (maybe it’s because I’m an extrovert, although I don’t remember how I score on the Myers-Briggs) but I do think that the parish ministry is essentially an extroverted activity. You’re in a politically charged situation. You’re a public leader. You’re up on view. You’ve got to find a way to work that. I am thinking of some pastors who are very shy, but they get over that shyness when they are leading their church or they work their shyness in a very positive way.

I got into some difficulty with some people in my book, Pastor, where I just said that I thought it was problematic if one was introverted and a pastor because so much of a pastor’s work is “political,” that is, it’s very public. Many of my seminarians, confirming what you said, were introverted people. They like to think about ideas, they like to think about God, and they like to be alone with a book, or in meditation. That’s great, except, at some point, they have to be comfortable with standing up in front of a group and saying, “Hey gang, I’ve got a vision of this, let’s go with it. Who wants to go with me? What can I do to talk you in to this?” It’s helpful to acknowledge shyness or introversion and then to ask God to work with it.

For more information on the seminars, on-line coaching, and books by Hugh Ballou, visit hughballou.com.

Will Willimon

By: William H. Willimon On 1/10/2011
Topics: Weekly Message from the Conference

Comments

1. Wesley Dunbar wrote on 1/10/2011 3:35:56 PM
Myers-Briggs introverts are those who find their source of energy in their "down time". Extroverts, on the other hand, are those who are energized when engaging others personally. The introvert/extrovert question is: Where do you get your energy? Leading worship tends to be more public than it is personal. What drains me (an introvert) is not so much liturgy, preaching and presiding, but engaging a multitude of conversations on different levels of significance and intensity before and after worship. Coffee hour is more draining than worship, but I need to be as attentive there as in worship. When it is all over I go home and crash in front of the Packers winning a football game. that always re-energizes me.
2. Lillian Eddleman wrote on 1/10/2011 6:21:26 PM
To consider extrovert and introvert as polar opposites is to skew Carl Jung's principles on which the Meyers-Briggs is based. As well, to ascribe one as "shy" and one "outgoing", especially if positive or negative connotations are placed on either one. Both are "healthy variations in personality style" and components of each are necessary to a healthy personality. One who tends toward introversion processes and draws from the inner person. Extroverts draw from what they receive from the outer world. The balance of these changes as a person changes throughout life. Wonder where Jesus would fall on this scale...
3. Joy Shackelford wrote on 1/12/2011 12:24:41 PM
Speaking from the perspective of an extrovert, it seems to me that the spiritual leader of a church needs to be a visionary and take risk. This takes time alone as well as interaction with many people. Leading with our strengths is great but we are called to develop our weaknesses, also, in order to help the church grow fully. We can't live where we are comfortable much of the time.